“When everything else fails, let it be.” This short concise statement rings a bell to me. Every time I think of my parents before who obtained divorce during the time when were still little children, I could not help but think over and over again if divorce could really answer to create a happy married life.
Back ten years ago, I was a little of twelve when my father filed a divorce proceeding against my mother. They were happy in the first three years of their marriage life but things start to fall apart when my father was just no longer happy with his relationship with my mother. Seeing her situation in the same manner as my father, my mother agreed without so much argument or altercation. They parted ways as though nothing happened. We lived most of the time in my maternal grandmother. While this is the case, my father continued to give us support and paid us visit for the next few years. What creates a little surprise of me is that my parents remained as parents. The divorce did not create a wall between them. A lawyer who initiated divorce New york and worked on their divorce papers left an advice to me that I could never forget as it strikes a note in my ears “Son, you may too young to understand things for now, but when time comes that you be in the same situation, you would appreciate seeing your parents separated but remained as friends rather than together full of heartaches.” True enough, that divorce New york obtained by my parents were necessarily the answer to let each other discover their own happiness.
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